A Space to Understand and Discover
Your Unique Philosophy
& Create the Art of Living Up To It

A HOLISTIC AND ARTISTIC PLAYGROUND FOR YOUR EXISTENCE

A HOLISTIC AND ARTISTIC PLAYGROUND FOR YOUR EXISTENCE

As a nerd of philosophy, psychology and any other self-developing modality out there, all the investment I've been doing in myself

has taken me not far ahead, but far back - back to myself, back to my essence and who I truly I am.

“Maybe the journey isn’t so much about

becoming anything. Maybe it’s about

un-becoming everything that isn’t really you,

so you can be who you were meant to be

in the first place.”

― Paulo Coelho

If our paths are crossing now, know that this will take us to a journey of unbecoming - not becoming this or that version of ourselves or the person we inspire to me.

You know, why?

Because there is nothing inside of us that is waiting to be developed or improved.

Because everything you aspire to have or to be, you already have it within you. Otherwise, you won't be able to recognize it in others. How does that sound?

What you already have inside you (aka all the possibilities you inhabit in you) can only be revealed in a journey of unbecoming.

How?

Nice to meet you, I'm Ecem

As your companion in this journey of
discovering your depths, here are my values:

Release

Remember

Discover

Reflect

Embrace & Embody

We don't need anyone to tell us what to do with our potential or how to use it for better.

When we're provided with a vulnerable and
all-accepting space, we become able to hear what we hold within -- that's the real power and value of any self-help modality can have.

This space is not about me -- my advices, wisdom, truths or thoughts.

This space is all about YOU.

I think we've had enough advices telling us what to do and how to do it. We've read many self-help books, attended many courses and asked for many people's opinions.

Now, I think we, as intuitive beings, need to listen to ourselves.

"What has all the external voices created in me?"

This is what this journey is about.

This is why, we're here not to become something or someone but

to un-become who we think we are.

to hold a mirror to you
- gently and kindly - to invite you to sit with and see yourself
to invite you back to your resourcefulness
to listen to you fully (without thinking what advice or response I should give to you) and see the all of you
to be the companion in your journey of self-deepening and understanding
to customize the journey as much as it works for you
to gently challenge you to take intentional steps creating your life based on your unique philosophy

to give you advice and lead the way for you
to force the connection and make it happen for us to work together
to work with a scrict and molded schedule and program for you
to coach in your 'self-development' or for your goals

I believe that no one needs

self-improvement or development.

Because self-development assumes that

we lack something as what and who we are today and we need further improvement to be complete and whole.

Why we're meeting with you on this journey is not to understand your past or build a future for you.
It is beyond all that.

What we're doing here with you is to discover the present moment and what lies in it for you.

What if we are already

whole, complete and resourceful?

The present moment holds all the possibilities that even the future cannot hold.

By understanding our perceptions in this moment, we'll be sheding a light on the cycles we were stuck in our past and simultaneously we'll be creating the future for us.

But it all starts with sitting intentionally with and opening ourselves to understand and even go beyond understanding of our present version, our perceptions and our emotions.

Services

aka ways to cocreate together

Flowsophy Circles

Extracting what you hold within by stirring your water

— this is a vulnerable empowering 1:1 creation space. We extract what you hold within and invite you to play and further create with them in this personal playground.

A heartfelt connection with your soul tribe

— this is the best way to describe these circles.

They are sacred and safe spaces for a handful of people who are in the same frequency and as a result they're able to come together and nurture this vulnerable and empowering

online gatherings.

Flowsophy Circles Vo.2 is now open...

1:1 Philosophy Coaching

When was the last time you did something for the sake of you enjoyed it — purely, childishly and joyfully?

Why do we keep feeling and seeing an anger toward authoritative figures around us like governments, bosses, parents and religion?

And what does self-authority has to do with all this?

Let’s talk about it.

🔅Share with me your definition of self-authority.

#selfauthority #authority #goverment #job #anger #action

The Inner Library #3 - 𝘈𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘍𝘶𝘦𝘭

Anger comes with a message.

Anger reveals the areas where you’re stagnant. And it serves merely as fuel to propel you into action within those areas.

𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯’𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.

Where have you felt anger lately?

What is that anger inviting you to see or do?

#anger #action #book #innerlibrary #juliacameron #artistsway

The Inner Library #2 - 𝘖𝘶𝘵𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘖𝘶𝘳 𝘐𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴

The river of change flowing through us enables us to let go and welcome new parts of ourselves that are in the making every moment and become the receiver of timeless wisdom.

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#yungpueblo #innerlibrary #lighter #book #identity #wisdom

The Inner Library #1 - 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘖𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥

What we have forgotten can be found in what excites our soul: those childlike passions, interests and excitements which feels like homecoming while having their deepest depths…

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#khalilgibran #themadmanhisparablesandpoems #philosophy #book #innerlibrary #remember #interests #passions

This year, I’m committed to integrating more of myself into every aspect of my life, especially my creative expressions. So, here I am, taking a step towards that.

One of the biggest parts of me is my deep love and passion for books. I cherish them immensely (maybe a little too much, haha).

And if there’s anything I love as much as reading, it’s the conversations I have with the lines on those pages – yes, conversations…

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With everything we read, we have an internal dialogue.

Some we continue passionately (and even aggressively!), some we carry with us to the dinner table or a coffee chat with a dear friend, but most we hold subconsciously.

I won’t minimize myself; I’ll say it boldly: I’m really good at reading between the lines – of a book, a person, a situation, an environment (which significantly contributes to what I do as a coach).

Books are my constant companions — they come with me to everywhere.

I’ve always been a person who is too much — many big feelings, huge ideals, abstract thinking and deep contemplations.

And I needed a friend to share them with. Most often, that friend was found in pages – a book, a notebook, or my journal.

Books have deepened my understanding of myself, the world and the cosmic connections I make in my mind and heart.

So here I am, sharing them with you — hoping they become companions on your own life journeys.

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𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗜𝗡𝗡𝗘𝗥 𝗟𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗥𝗬
𝘞𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥, 𝘸𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘶𝘦.

**And who knows, maybe all of this will turn into a book club one day 🤭 — just to make little middle school Ecem’s dreams come true…

Follow along and let’s turn the page together…
@innerdialogueswithecem

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#book #bookaholic #booknerd #philosophycoach #innerlibrary #reading

POV: you’ve always been the odd one out — the one who mostly swam against the tide

POV: your heart had crazy dreams and your mind had big contemplations

POV: people told you that you’re acting crazy and throwing away “big” opportunities

But you had a “bad habit” of not being able to fit yourself in wherever your heart felt heavy.

Anyone else who feels me and has this “bad habit”?

(The Fallacy of) Thinking Through Everything

Do we really “solve” our “problems” by thinking through them?
Or can it be the way we avoid truly being in our lives?

Thinking is a tool of human mind for cultivating and harvesting our inner wisdom - a bridge to embodying that understanding into our actions.

Here comes the fallacy: Thinking, which should be a means, has become an end.

It took me a while to get comfortable with the fact that I’m not the best coach for everyone.

There is no point in forcing connection (as if that were even possible) and no point in minimizing myself to work with others.

When I work with “my people”, they feel both enriched and more attuned to their own truths, as they become more able to hold more opposites within themselves.

It’s as if their hearts expand, allowing them to embrace more and become more fully themselves.

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Whether I’m the best coach for you is something we’ll discover together—that’s the purpose of my free discovery calls.

These calls are a chance to explore our potential synergy, get to know each other, for me to understand what you want to create, what’s holding you back, and how I can support you.

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Another opportunity for us to connect is on February 12th. I’ll be hosting a free group coaching session — come and join if you want to tune back into the visions you set for this year 🐚

For everything, send me a DM, let’s chat! @innerdialogueswithecem

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The most valuable thing we can give someone is our presence. It’s not advice, money, or even time…it’s our presence.

Full presence + undivided attention + curiosity = brings out our deepest answers

We open up when someone listens, accompanies us on our self-discovery journeys, and holds us accountable to what we find within.

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People often ask me what I do as a coach. Do I give answers, provide “solutions” to people’s “problems” or show them “the way” to their dreams?

I do none of those! Honestly, no one can.

I offer my full presence, undivided attention and child-like curiosity which opens doors to their inner answers.

I create a space where people can discover them themselves.

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You might ask, “Don’t you ever give the answer?”

I constantly check in with myself and return to curiosity to avoid doing that.

We all assume as human beings; we’re wired to seek solutions.

But what sets a coach apart (from a friend, mentor or consultant) is knowing how to quickly recover to that original curiosity and keep asking questions from that place.

Presence, attention and curiosity allow us to be one with the person in front of us.

They allow us to connect on a peer-to-peer level—an adult-to-adult connection, rather than a parent-child dynamic (which, let’s be honest, is the default in many relationships).

My coaching is a peer-to-peer partnership, a co-creation, a collaborative exploration.

How? Because I’m committed to walking with you on your journey, not leading from the front.

I’m not here to give you answers. I’m here to uncover your own.
I’m not here to find the how to your dreams. I’m here to guide you to discover your whys and why nots — what you truly seek and what’s holding you back.

If this resonates, you know how to reach me — DMs 😉

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Sunday Calibration #3— recalibrating ourselves to the wavelength of our intentions and visions  When we say “I want or need more time” or ask someone “When are you available?”, are we truly asking for time, or are we seeking energy?

What is time, after all, without our full presence, undivided attention, and awareness invested in it?

What would happen if we were to give more energy within a shorter timeframe?

“Energy multiplies time”.

Sunday Calibration #2 — recalibrating ourselves to the wavelength of our intentions and visions  What if all the hardships and challenges are actually setting the stage for our intentions to flourish?

What if they are not challenges but opportunities for our seeds to grow on fertile grounds? 🌱

ENG/TR

We often desire things without being willing to create the space for them to flourish in our lives. Eventually, these desires and dreams end up taking up even more space, both in our lives and in our capacities to hold them.

Our lives are already packed with our beliefs, conditionings, and emotions. We live in a cycle of them most of the time.

How would it look like if we were to loosen ourselves from the rigid boundaries of the things we know, and learned, of our pasts, ideas, and truths? What could we create within that newly found space — in those pockets of space?

Space is letting go of the old.
Space holds the potential for the new.
And creation happens within that space.

You are invited to create this space for yourself in the first quarter of this year.

We’ll be going on a journey — you, me, and five others people who are, in essence, reflections of ourselves.

In this co-creative space, we are not aiming to do more and therefore achieve more. We are aiming to find depth and fulfillment by doing less and embodying more.

More details are coming soon!

For now, save the date: February 12th. That’s when we’ll be opening our first pocket of space together!

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Çoğu zaman niyetlerde ve isteklerde bulunuyoruz fakat onların hayatlarımızda gerçekleşebileceği alanı yaratma girişiminde bulunmuyoruz. Bu da zaten hınca hınç dolu hayatlarımızda ekstra bir doluluk yaratıp kapasitemizden daha da yemiş oluyor.

Hayatlarımız zaten inançlarımız, düşüncelerimiz, duygularımız ve öğrendiklerimizle fazlasıyla dolu. Onların döngüsünde yaşıyoruz çoğunlukla.

Peki ya bu döngüden biraz özgürleşseydik nasıl olurdu?

Bildiklerimizi, öğrendiklerimizi, geçmişlerimizi, ideallerimizi ve doğrularımızın sıkı sıkıya tutunduğumuz eyerlerini biraz salsaydık hayatımızda nasıl bir boşluk açılırdı?

Boşluk yeniye gebedir.
Boşluk içinde sonsuz yaratım potansiyeli yatar.

Dün akşam küçük bir grup olarak bir yolculuğa çıktık biz. Yılın ilk çeyreğinde kendimize bu yaratım alanlarını vermek için...

Daha fazla yaparak daha fazlasını başarmaya giden değil de, daha az yapmakla derinliği bulup olmayı deneyimlediğimiz bir yolculuğa.

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The language of 2025 isn’t just a few words – it is a way of being.

I pulled these words from the images and prompts on my vision board:
✧rooms with big windows and tall ceilings
✧beautiful ancient sites
✧all forms of outdoors and nature: forest, sea, rain, and city streets
✧hosting IRL events in spaces with big windows making outdoors in or even without a roof over our heads
✧people dancing and co-creating together
✧a studio surrounded by a forest
✧words scattered around the board - joy, abundance, creativity, mental clarity, care, connection

At the heart of my 2025 lexicon is 𝙎𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 — the umbrella under which all other experiences reside.

Being rooted from the aligned flowy creativity within my mind and in the created pockets of spaces during the day, spaciousness is where I feel most expanded, connected, creative and joyful.

It is where:
✩I am able to recognize endless possibilities.
✩I feel connected with people wholeheartedly without any expectation getting in between.
✩I create with the response born from the moment.
✩I become magnetic and most joyful.
✩I experience crystal-clear clarity, even amidst the awareness of endless creative potential.
✩I get to create art with every mundane act – from holding a conversation to creating content; from walking to cooking; from reading to dancing; from hugging to arguing
✩I am able to play with my existence and use it as a tool in the artistic expression of my core essence.

Every word comes into life with small daily actions and intentions. This is how I’m inviting myself to embody the 2025 lexicon.

What is 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧 2025?

The philosophy and story behind Flowsophy Circles 🏛🫂

𝗣𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗼 - 𝘀𝗼𝗽𝗵𝘆
/phílos/ /sophós/

The love(r) of wisdom

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𝑭𝒍𝒐𝒘 - 𝙨𝙤𝙥𝙝𝙮

Freeing alignment with wisdom

True wisdom comes from understanding ourselves and true alignment happens we embody what we understand.

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Flowsophy Circles is more than a group coaching journey — it is an intimate, vulnerable and empowering self-actualization and co-creation journey with your soul tribe.

Your philosophy (everything you hold within) is unique to you; therefore it can only be truly understood and embodied uniquely by you.

But we don’t have to do it alone, right?

When I discovered the power of community, when I was held by my people, I was ready to hold more people and invite them to co-create together — whatever their hearts were desiring.

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As a multi-passionate person, it took me a long time to find what I was meant to create with my life.

I’ve always struggled to minimize all my interests, passions and the things I want to experience and create in life in a few of words or categories.

With philosophy coaching, I’ve been able to integrate many parts of me into my craft.

But, again, I was more than just one thing, in this case a coach — the word didn’t fully encompass what I considered my craft.

At that point, I realized a further creation was calling me.

With Flowsophy Circles, I’ve seen an opportunity to embrace all parts of who I am and support people to do the same.

So here I am, creating a space where you can fully embrace and embody all parts of yourself, rather than minimizing yourself with titles and labels.

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢 /sophós/ 𝙗𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙛𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚

A flow that’s juicy, joyful, exciting, abundant, empowering, and inspiring...

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🏛Flowsophy Circles — happening in Turkish and English...

You coming, flowsopher? 🫂

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Come and experience a taste of it in our free opening circles:

TR - January 15th
ENG - February 12th

Send me a DM for further details! @innerdialogueswithecem

You may ask, fulfilling and accomplishing aren’t the same?

I would say not.

Accomplishments entail a destination to reach - they are temporary.

Fulfillment is about a journey and therefore it is ongoing.

If we were look into the eye of our dreams, desires and goals, we would see our intentions, fears and feelings. When we work with those depths, we start to fulfill our intentions with or without accomplishing the solid goal we had in mind.

We start to fulfill other possibilities of the same dream which we did not even imagine.

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Fulfillment is the emotional and mental sides of success stories.

The achieved success is not a moment in time, right?

But most of the time, when we listen to people’s success stories, we fall into the trap of accomplishments rather than fulfillments - the emotional and mental work they have done, the ups and downs and plateaus throughout the journey and the trajectory after that accomplishment.

Fulfillment of our dreams comes from deep understanding of oneself and surrendering to the flow of life.

Are you ready to dive deep and flow on the path of your dreams?

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Send me a DM, share a big dream, goal, vision you have and let’s scracth the surface and see what gems it holds for you.  
Does your dream sound crazy? Oh, even better 🤭

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What we truly want lies in the feelings we seek.

Feelings can only reside in the present.

Whatever you crave to feel once you achieve your dreams and visions currently exists in the form of a feeling.

You may seek to feel confident, once you get a promotion.
Getting a promotion is not fully in your hands but feeling confident as who you are today is.

You may seek to feel connected to like-minded people once you move out from your current neighborhood to a one you resonate more with. Wanting to feel connected can be attained in this moment via different means till you get to fulfill your goal of moving out.

— 𝞅 —

The irony here is this:

We think we want certain stuff but the thing we truly want is to feel in a certain way and once we feel in that way, we may no longer seek the same goal.

We may fulfill our dreams without even accomplishing them. Isn’t it ironic?

If we can fulfill our dreams by following the steps of our feelings and if feelings can only reside in this moment, then our dreams are also here in this very moment.

Right?

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#feeling #feelings #goals #visions #2025 #2024 #newyearresolutions #visionboard #mindset #coaching #philosophycoaching #lifecoaching #philosophy #whatyouwant #dreams #groupcoaching #community #yaşamkoçluğu #koçluk #present #accomplishment #fulfillment

Visions as Feelings 
Do we really want the things we put on your vision boards and set as New Year’s resolutions? Or do we only seek to feel in a certain way once those visions become real?

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 This is the deep work we do with my clients as well. When they come to me with a goal in their mind, our initial focus is to dig deeper into that goal.
Because it is all superficial and surface level unless we understand the layers of our desires and goals. That’s when real transformation and journey begins.

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#visions #2024 #2025 #visionboard #newyearresolutions #goals #mindset #coaching #philosophycoaching #lifecoaching #philosophy #feeling #whatyouwant #feelings

“True suffering is being trapped in your own head” says Adam Snowflake.

Then the way out from that stuckness can nothing but a fresh perspective of seeing and understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

Can this be the role of heros, then?

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I think, if there ever has to be a hero, they would be someone who has faced with most of their internal battles, come at peace with the fact that those battles will never end and now are able to recognize the light within you and are willing to cultivate it together right from that crack of your own perspective.

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#perspective #hero #narnia #chroniclesofnarnia #philosophy #philosophycoaching #2025 #wizardofoz #coaching #innerdialogueswithecem #narrative #newperspective #mindsetshift #seeingthingsdifferently

Let me tell you a story - a real and very recent one.

I met this woman who once told me that “something is missing in my life even though I have everything.”

She wanted to be loved, just like every one of us.
She wanted to be seen as who she was truly.
She wanted to feel valued.

She searched for love and validation from her father, her partners, and even her son.

The idea of being alone terrified her. She wanted a company in her life.

Guess what? She found it right after she faced with her biggest fear.

When her world crumbled down, there was no other choice than finding that company within herself.

It was time to face with the thing she was escaping from.

𝙃𝙀𝙍𝙎𝙀𝙇𝙁

She wanted to be seen by others as who she is because she didn’t embrace all of her parts.

She yearned to live a life that reflected her true self but was hindered by the parts of herself she wasn’t ready to look them in the eyes.

She resented those who failed to see the entirety of her – her father and partners – because her true self encompassed all her parts.

the parts of herself she was 𝙖𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙙 of,  the parts of herself she cherished, the parts of herself which reminded of her mother’s inability to assert herself,
the parts of herself which evoked her father’s distant affection, a love she yearned for

Once she recognized the parts of herself shrouded in shame, others began to see her authentically.

Because ultimately she was able to see herself without escaping any of her parts.

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This woman is one of my dearest clients who have the courage to surrender to life. It didn’t happen overnight, nor within a few sessions.

We accumulate experiences that shape our present moment while grant us the power to navigate our path in every moment.

Two months ago, she decided to turn the wheel back to herself. And for a while, she has been the happiest and most fulfilled in her whole life.

Recently I asked her where she wants to go from here. She told me, “This moment is perfect. I want to cherish it further and cultivate within myself the essence of this state for the remainder of my life.”

This is fulfillment experienced through embracing all parts of ourselves.

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How would pockets of spaces look like for you? 🫙

What is it that creates the uneasiness to sit with yourself by doing less and being more? What is it that you’re escaping from?🐌

Meeting ourselves where we are and allowing to sit with ourselves is what brings us whatever we want in our lives.

Everything is a thread of connection and relationship.🧵

The most important relationship we’re in is the one with ourselves.

As much as we invest into that, we nurture whatever relationships we want to create in our lives - whether it is a partner, heartfelt community and friends, a new job, financial abundance, a new house...

Relationship is a mutual connection. It is more than just two people.

Whatever we want to have in our lives, it requires a relationship to be built with that dream/goal.

But first let’s start with ourselves.

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Tendency and mindset of doing more is a fruit of hustle culture.

Join me in Episode 10: Why Do the Best Ideas Come In the Shower? - Hustle Culture vs. Downtime to tune ourselves out of “doing more” mindset 🎧

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As always, thanks to my dear teacher @gozdeergucatolye and our community @theworldconsciousnesscommunity for bringing to the surface whatever I have in me 🙏

📸Thumbnail: @renkliatlar

#christmas #festiveseason #humandoing #xmas #humanbeing #lessismore #hustleculture #business #newyear #resolutions #2025 #2024 #newyearresolutions #mindfulness #meditation #selfawareness #wellbeing #community #podcast #newyear2025

We create our purpose as we live through life.

As we indulge ourselves to the conscious act of creating of our essence and purpose, we constantly recreate ourselves.

However how can we feel at home even though our essence keeps changing and evolving by the nature of who are as ‘ever-becoming beings’?

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This video was in creation for over a month. I didn’t force myself to immediately create something after I visited “In The Presence of Being” exhibition and experienced the artworks there. I let them live with me and be kneaded within my life.

I hope everyone of us give ourselves that simmering time in internalizing art and life experiences and create either a response or piece of creation with them. Either way what we create is ultimately a unique brush stroke on the canvas of our individual philosophy.

Forever grateful for you @atozbatur for polishing and shaping my essence.

🖼️ @nelumbostudios

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#philosophy #sartre #exhibition #art #teacher #guidance #coaching #lifecoach #philosophycoacg #essence #purpose #lifepurpose

I believe in the power of deep conversations.

In conversations where I’ve been listened to without any judgment, I discovered a lot about myself.
I remembered the areas I’d forgotten about myself. I learned the areas I hadn’t known about myself, my strengths, fears, dreams and goals.
I was inspired by the questions of those who had listened to me with all their presence to be a light to my journey and to hold on to it tightly.

“I go after deep conversations.
I love holding deep conversations with people who dare to get vulnerable, and go beyond the right or wrong, love the simple action of holding a deep conversation where one is reflected to another. With this story, I do coaching.” — Episode 16: Pod/Ep.16 - Every Beginning Includes A Grief of Loss 🎧

🪞Just like a mirror, deep conversations reflect who you are back to you without any added interpretation.🪞

A mirror doesn’t make your face more prettier as much as it doesn’t make it uglier.

It reflects as it is.

A conscious space for holding vulnerable deep conversations can provide a transparent reflection of the person as who they are.

With that intention, I’ve created 1:1 and very recently collective spaces with my coaching where one can take that deep reflective journey into themselves with their own words and my questions helping them to deepen the journey.

This conscious space leads people to find the answers that are already within them - whether this is understanding their life purpose or steps to make it a reality.

Let’s start mirroring! 🪞🏛️

If you’d like to experience 🫂 a collective space of deep conversations, feel free to join us this Thursday for a group coaching session. Link in the bio!

If you’d like to work 🔅 1:1 🔅on whatever goal or struggle you might have, send me a DM. Let’s start the journey into the depths of yourself!

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#philosophy #coaching #mirror #reflection #lifecoaching #philosophycoach #groupcoaching #deepconversations #inspiration #vulnerability #innerself #awareness

Judgement creates stiff walls around us which block us to tap into our inner joy.

Inner joy is our default mode of functioning but we build walls of ego, judgement and beliefs around it.

It was easy to say all these words in the video as I was illuminating with joy.

But then, I lost it.

I put up my walls of judgement.

That moved me away from home - home within.

I’ve realized recently that I was falling into judgement - judgement about myself, of others, the world…

“I think you reminded me more of myself than I wished to admit, and therefore I judged you with the same harshness I would have judged myself.” - Clockwork Princess by @cassieclare1

I was judgmental toward myself at first. But it was easy to project onto others.

When I was made to see myself on the mirror of my judgements by witnessing someone’s vulnerable words, I understood why I’ve lost my joy.

I was clinging to hard onto my judgements, expectations and beliefs.

I was sabotaging myself by judging others.

More than that, I was judging myself so harshly that I wasn’t surrendering to fully experience what I go through.

There was walls around my inner joy because I was away from home - home within.

That brought tears of joy in that moment.

And from that place, I’m sharing this video with you.

Let all of us withhold immediate conclusions and instead embrace uncertainty.

That will bring freedom of judgement to us.

That’s when we’ll experience joy.

That’s when we’ll experience alignment.

Because joy is actually alignment.

🎧More on joy, the sense of home and the place of judgements on S2/Ep.2 & Ep.4

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In a space where we listen to others get vulnerable about their depths, we feel safe to take that vulnerable journey into our own depths too. That’s how I was able to realize the walls of judgement and tap back into my joy.

I’m inviting you to a group coaching experience where we’ll be facing with our deepest trust and recalibrating ourselves back with our potential with a support of an all-accepting community.

More details are in the bio ⬆︎

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#innerdialogueswithecem #philosophy #groupcoaching #joy #lifecoaching #judgement #norms #podcast #lifecoaching

Where do you wait to feel ready in your life in order to take action?

Spoiler alert: Ready is not a feeling, it is a decision

🎧 More about that on S2/Ep.3 - The More I Learn, The Less I Feel Ready: Incubation & Mindful Exposure to Unknown

I invite you to the open-to-everyone FREE group coaching session!!

It’s happening on the 14th November, Thursday at 7pm CET / 1pm EST.

More details are in the bio ⇧

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#innerdialogueswithecem #philosophy #groupcoaching #lifecoaching #incubation #action #feelingready #ready #step #smallsteps

Got the guts and inspiration to share this with you from @jb_copeland’s recent video (see it in the stories)

#rejection #trust #coaching #energy #protection #confession #philosophy #no

Hearing these words would have given me so much relief during high school and university when I tried to ‘determine how the rest of my life will look like’.

I found out it didn’t work like that at all…

Inspo: @radhidevlukia

#philosophy #figuringoutlife #findingyourself #coaching #philosophycoaching #lifecoaching #inspiration #personalgrowth #selfdiscovery #selflove #journey #process #destination #success #career #youth #young #teenage #lost

Dear 25…

#birthday #25 #coaching #lifecoach #lifecoaching #figureout #philosophy #inspiration

𝘚𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘊𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 — recalibrating ourselves to the wavelength of our goals

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Thanks @youralignedspace for your wisdom in sharing these questions in our wonderful Trust Fall community!

#innerdialogueswithecem #futureself #goal #selfimprovement #desires #potential #action #alignment #back2socialchallenge #changeofnarrative

🌠You’re the bridge to your future self 🌠

In a session with one of my clients, I asked her to paint the life she wants.

She started listing down all the things that would fulfill her soul.

Then I said to her,
“There is a version of you who has everything you listed out.
And she is just behind that wall. She is not far away.

The only thing you have to do is to take steps toward her.
You have that version in you right now as who you are today.
You inhabit your future self within this version of you.”

Then I asked my client,
 💫“How can you channel her energy?
💫How can you walk toward your future self?
💫What are the things that you can start implementing into your life that your future self is already doing?”

And finally,
🎗”How can you remind yourself that your future self is just right behind that bookshelf?”

It was a very powerful session for her. She said “I have a newfound hope for my future self.”

At the end of the session, there was a visible change in how she spoke, smiled and carried herself. She was illuminating with the connection she built with her future self ✨
Since then, she made many things on that dream-life list a reality for her.

🎈It didn’t take months or years. It was exactly in three weeks she started living a more fulfilled and aligned life. 🎈

If you also want to live a fulfilled life aligned with your aspirations, intentions and dreams, let’s awaken your inner artist together.

🟠Send me a DM or book a FREE call with me to start painting your life canvas today!
 #interstellar #time #quantum #philosophy #movie #futureself #dream #coaching #innerdialogueswithecem #matthewmcconaughey #annehathaway #back2socialchallenge

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A Space to Understand and Discover Your Unique Philosophy & Create the Art of Living Up To It

A HOLISTIC AND ARTISTIC PLAYGROUND FOR YOUR EXISTENCE

A HOLISTIC AND ARTISTIC PLAYGROUND FOR YOUR EXISTENCE

“Maybe the journey isn’t so much about

becoming anything. Maybe it’s about

un-becoming everything that isn’t really you,

so you can be who you were meant to be

in the first place.”

Nice to meet you, I'm Ecem

As your companion in this journey of discovering your depths, here are my values:

We don't need anyone to tell us what to do with our potential or how to use it for better. When we're provided with a vulnerable and all-accepting space, we become able to hear what we hold within -- that's the real power and value of any self-help modality can have.

Why we're meeting with you on this journey is not to understand your past or build a future for you. It is beyond all that. What we're doing here with you is to discover the present moment and what lies in it for you.

By understanding our perceptions in this moment, we'll be sheding a light on the cycles we were stuck in our past and simultaneously we'll be creating the future for us.

But it all starts with sitting intentionally with and opening ourselves to understand and even go beyond understanding of our present version, our perceptions and our emotions.

Services

aka ways to cocreate together

Flowsophy Circles

1:1 Philosophy Coaching

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A Space to Understand and Discover
Your Unique Philosophy
& Create the Art of Living Up To It

As your companion in this journey of
discovering your depths, here are my values:

We don't need anyone to tell us what to do with our potential or how to use it for better.

When we're provided with a vulnerable and
all-accepting space, we become able to hear what we hold within -- that's the real power and value of any self-help modality can have.

Why we're meeting with you on this journey is not to understand your past or build a future for you.
It is beyond all that.

What we're doing here with you is to discover the present moment and what lies in it for you.